It is clear that your relationship is at a point where you need to look inward
YUP. I have asked my old man to do counseling twice and it’s a “no go” on his end, all these signs listed that the wife no longer loves them (in my case) are the result of how I’ve been treated by my husband these past two years
Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Become closer to your friends and family at this time. Have a great day, Ann!
My wife was the one who cheated on my and I tried to get her to go to counseling she refuses and said she doesn’t believe in counseling. I am at my ends wit always wondering if I should through I. Towel
Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship
Her feelings toward you have changed. She is no longer willing to treat you with the respect that you require for this relationship. Take this time to determine if you want to maintain this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Take this time to strengthen your relationships with your friends and family. Have a great day, Tim!
In curomious if these things could still apply if we have children and seems to be more interested in being around her “stalker”
If your wife has a stalker, then she should speak with the police department. Stalking is serious, and it may lead to physical harm or death. Your use of quotations may imply that you don’t believe that he is her stalker. If that xmeets profile is the case, then speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Call these police if she says that she is being stalked. Have a great day, Cloud!
Great information indeed there is another one that wasn’t mentioned which is the fact that if theirs a problem and she doesn’t want marriage counseling or prayer to see if those things could mend the relationship. Thanks again
It is clear that the relationship has ended or is near to its end
If she is not interested in taking action to work through any problems, then it is likely that her thoughts are decided. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, Stanley!
I read this in hopes my husband will notice these signs. I don’t cheat nor try to make him jealous, but he has hurt me to my core…often. at Thanksgiving he chose to go to his sister’s house with the kids and leave me with the food and home alone all day. And it was my fault that I was upset. Planned for two weeks, his sister says something five days before. I even told him I would be upset if he went over there before having our dinner. I have no family here. He gets drunk and calls me worthless etc under his breath. Doesn’t have the guts to say it sober. If I call him on it,it’s my fault. It will take a year to pay off debts, in that year u am going to make him upgrade the house like I want and then he can leave. He can leave now if he wants, but he won’t. I won’t look at him and I don’t share anything anymore. No more chatty Cathy for me. Thanks.
He is abusive toward you. He does not respect you. Take this time to become closer to your friends and family. You do not need this person in your life any longer. Perhaps speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings, though you should not accept his disrespectful actions. Best of luck, Jamie!